Tuesday, August 18, 2015

Update!

I had pretty much forgotten about the existence of this blog, so imagine my surprise when I randomly ran across the address tonight! What a joy it has been to reread all of the funny, sweet, and maddening things Lauren has done over the years, and I would like to get back in the habit of writing here. Lauren is now 8 and is the most amazing little girl. She's so bright and curious and keeps us on our toes constantly. I get comments quite often about how people pretty much read my Facebook only to see what Lauren has said recently! She has the most amazing questions and quirky little thoughts; I'll have to share some of them here. Andrew is nearly 4 and is coming into his own as a growing little person. He's the sweetest, most loving little boy and is all about his mom. Or "Mister Piggy," as he calls me these days. He loves trucks and trains and will enthusiastically point out all of the larger vehicles as you drive down the road. I'll come back in the next couple of days and do a deeper update on both kids, mostly for my own record-keeping. They're growing so fast, and I would love to be able to remember this time!

Sunday, March 4, 2012

Lauren has had so many cute things to say lately, I can barely keep up!

-Her new thing is "voila!" which comes out as an enthusiastic "WA-LA!!" Not sure where she heard that one.

-We were putting her tub toys away and she said, "The truth is, this is my favorite one." To my complete lack of surprise, it was the pink one.

-Yesterday we were trying to get Lauren to clean her room. I was downstairs when Lauren came down to join me. After a few minutes, Jeremy came down as well. It turns out that she was hiding out downstairs, trying to avoid the cleaning. When we fussed at her for not doing as we'd asked, she starting telling me that Daddy was being "mean" to her and that "he told (her) to leave the house!" She is quick on her feet when she needs to be!

She still cleaned her room, by the way.

-She's all into telling knock-knock jokes right now, but they're not so... complete. They go something like:

L: Knock knock!
Me: Who's there?
L: (She looks around) Car.
Me: Car who?
L: Car... stinky feet! Don't touch the potty!

-She also tells everyone now that her name is Machine-La. Not sure where that came from, but it's her new name.

-She also is alternately into Friendship Day (complete with banners hung in the living room), her "first Easter hunt!", and going to Disneyworld. Sometimes she talks about all three at once. Between that and her new nickname, it makes conversations with other people quick interesting.

I'm really enjoying watching Lauren interact with the world. She is so creative and cute and way more outgoing than I was at that age. I think she's going to be great in kindergarten!

Saturday, February 18, 2012

Kindergarten Girl!

Yesterday Lauren and I got the paperwork all ready and went down to her future elementary school to get her all ready for Kindergarten. Can you believe it? She's now all registered and will hopefully begin full-day K in September.

If the school doesn't change things up, she'll have a very young male teacher named Mr. Villalobos, or Mr. V. I've heard really good things about him and think that Lauren will do well with a male teacher, so here's hoping things stay the same.

I tried to make a big deal out of all of this yesterday by talking it up and taking her for a special lunch. I think she's getting pretty excited. About an hour after we put her to bed last night, she got up, saying she couldn't sleep. I marched her back up to bed and told her to close her eyes and think of something. I suggested swimming, but she cut me off saying, "No. I want to think of Kindergarten." Isn't that sweet? She stayed in bed, too.

Speaking of swimming, Lauren is really doing well there. She just finished her first round of her P2 class and already has been promoted to P3. After three rounds of P1, I wasn't sure she'd make it out in just one, but she did! She's close to swimming independently; she can do a few strokes after her teacher gets her started and kind of pushes her off. She can also float front and back and can turn from one to the other. I'm really excited and proud to see how her skills have developed over time!

Sunday, February 5, 2012

Not the star of the show

Today we had Andrew baptized at Holy Rosary. Lauren got to come up to the front of the church with us and hold the candle. The priest asked each family in turn to name their child in front of the congregation. We said Andrew's name and Lauren immediately turned to Jeremy and said, "Wait! You have two kids! You forgot one!" He tried to quiet her, but she kept saying it louder and louder. She finally settled down, just short of going down and telling the priest herself.

She also got upset at the end of the service, after we had lit the candle as part of the baptism. She asked to blow it out, but in our haste to get back to our seats, Jeremy ended up blowing it out himself. She LOST it, doing the whole arching and crying thing down the aisle. She spent most of the rest of the service underneath the pew, crying to herself.

You take the spotlight off her for one second and see what happens!

Honestly, though, she's been fantastic about sharing everything with her brother. She has surpassed my expectations. I think today we just didn't quite prepare her for what would happen and she was surprised. She's the most loving, sweetest big sister ever, and Andrew is a very lucky little boy!

Monday, December 5, 2011

He can't hear you...

Lauren does not understand that the baby monitor is a one-way affair. Tonight the baby had started to fuss and I found her with her mouth pressed up to the receiver, shouting, "Don't' cry, Andrew! It's okay!"

It's sweet that she wants to comfort him, but her earnestness cracks me up a bit.

Saturday, December 3, 2011

Lauren and Andrew

From the moment we sat Lauren down at a special lunch at Red Robin and let her know she was going to be a big sister, she's been in love. At first, she was in love with the idea of being a big sister. We got her a "Big Sister Lauren" t-shirt that she wore with pride and she told everyone she was going to have a baby sibling soon. She was so happy and excited.

Of course, she thought she was going to have a baby sister and that's what she told everyone. We kept trying to soften the potential impact of the baby being a boy by adding, "or brother" every time she gleefully told someone, "I'm going to have a baby sister!" In April, an ultrasound confirmed without a doubt that we were, indeed, expecting a boy. Jeremy and I knew it wasn't going to go over well, so we held our breath as we sat Lauren down that night. We let her know that we saw the baby in a special picture and that it was a healthy baby brother. "No," she said, "it's a baby sister." She insisted for a couple of days that we were wrong, but she came around. She even came up with a name for the baby: Nut.

We have no idea where that "name" came from; we had simply asked her what she thought we should name the baby and that's what she said, instantly. No question. And she stuck with it, too, much to our chagrin. She told anyone that would ask that her brother's name was going to be "Nut!" Most people just sort of shrugged and smiled conspiratorially at us, but a few asked her if she meant "Nat." They evidently don't know four-year-olds that well.

I knew Lauren was excited to have a brother, but I have to admit I was even bowled over by the wave of love she seemed to feel for him instantly. When Grandpa (John) brought her to the hospital to see him, she was beside herself with excitement. She kept exclaiming how "cute" he was and just seemed entranced. We were off to a good start.

Ever since then, Lauren has been a model big sister and clearly just loves her brother to bits. She's constantly asking if he's awake and if he's happy and is constantly maneuvering to give him hugs and a "sweet kiss." She's almost a little too lovey with him; I'm worried that she's going to smother him with kisses one of these days or crush him with a hug. The poor babe got his first cold at two weeks from all the kisses Typhoid Mary was giving him. He's a trooper, though, and we just keep up a constant stream of, "Okay, Lauren, that's close enough. You don't have to make him grab your hand. Okay! Ten kisses is enough!"

She loves helping to take care of him and has been fantastic about helping. If you think about it, it's pretty amazing: she was the only child and the light of our lives and now she's sharing the spotlight without complaint. We probably did a little too much for her before he was born, but now she gets in and out of the car on her own, dresses herself, and feeds the dogs without help from us. She's becoming quite the big girl before our eyes and she's done it with grace and without jealousy.

The best part, of course, is seeing that bond between them as siblings. It seemed to be there pretty much from that moment at Red Robin and just gets stronger every day. He smiles and coos at her as she lovingly picks the sock lint from between his toes. He stops crying as she leans over him, screeching soothing things in an attempt to sound like Mom. She constantly tells us things to say to him ("Hi little man! Hi handsome man!") and asks us to make him talk to her. And today for the first time, she said, "Andrew, I love you!" totally on her own. It absolutely melted my heart.

They're 4.5 years apart, so I can't imagine it will always be this easy, but I do hope that they always love each other this much.

Thursday, December 1, 2011

Back in the saddle...

I am horrified and yet unsurprised to find that it's been over a year since I updated this blog. I have this tendency to start things and not finish them and I'm afraid I've let this be one of them.

It's too bad, really, since this last year has been one of great change for us. On January 6th, to our great shock and amazement, we found out that we were expecting another baby. On September 8th, Andrew John Schumacher graced us with his presence and we've never quite been the same since. He's a sweet, lovey baby and we all are nuts about him. Watching Lauren become a big sister has been the most incredible experience: they've had this bond from day one that just can't be replicated in any other relationship. She's been a huge help and has never once acted jealous. We lucked out.

More about that in another post. First, a catch up of all the wonderful things Lauren's been up to in the last year. We traveled to NC for Christmas and in April went to Tennessee and Kentucky to visit family. Otherwise, we've just been busy at home. She continued to take ballet until the summer and then opted to start taking soccer. There's no sign yet of any incredible Pele-like talent, but she's having a great time and is learning some good skills. She is now on her third session of swim lessons and is doing really well. In the last few classes it's really clicked and she now puts her ears, forehead, AND eyes in with abandon. I'm hoping she'll be promoted to the next level soon.

Right now, she's all a-twitter about Christmas. Last year, she got it to the extent that she knew who Santa was and that there would be presents and seemed pretty excited about it. This year, she's taken it to a whole new level. She asks me multiple times a day when it's going to be Christmas and when we'll be getting out the decorations. No answer seems to satisfy her and unfortunately, she doesn't seem to understand how months and days work just yet, so I can't get her to understand that we still have a way to go. Tomorrow I'm taking her and Andrew to meet Santa, so we'll see how that goes. Strangely, she hasn't really gotten swept up in the whole gift-getting, commercial aspect of Christmas. She doesn't have a list of things she wants, unlike many kids I know. She's learned about the "reason for the season" in Sunday School but doesn't seem too convinced about that either. Frankly, I'm not sure just what she thinks the holiday is about, but she likes it. As long as it has lights and special cartoons, she likes it.

One cute thing she said the other day was a couple of days after we spent a whole car trip making up songs about "Lauren the pink-nosed reindeer." Evidently, her nose is sparkly and has hearts and butterflies. Andrew's is yellow, but I don't think it has any extra. Anyway, as I was getting her out of the car, she wedged herself in front of me and said, "Follow my nose!" Sometimes her memory for things astounds me.

One thing about the last year: Lauren has definitely decided what she likes and what she doesn't. Lauren has developed an obsession with construction and, more specifically, the television shows on HGTV starring Mike Holmes. She just seems fascinating with "building" and all the processes that go into it. She was even a "builder" for Halloween, with a pink Mike Holmes crew t-shirt, a pink hard hat, and a pink tool belt. Between that and the incredibly complex, symmetrical things she builds out of blocks, I'm thinking she might be headed for a career in engineering.

She also likes, in no particular order:
Bob the Builder
Dinosaur Train
That commercial for State Farm with the "discount double check" where the cheesehead bangs on the window
Chicken nuggets
Corn dogs
Telling us, "I win and you lose." We're trying to let her know that a) that's not sportsman-like and b) you have to be competing at something to win and lose. The concept is lost on her.
Her Skechers shoes that light up
The stories of Richard Scarry
Her baby brother - I'll dedicate a whole other post to that
Being a drama queen - ditto
"Designers" aka Project Runway
Telling me we need to go to Subway or Little Caesars
Same with Starbucks for her "chocolate coffee" (I swear, we don't eat out that much; she just remembers everything)
Headbands
Running, especially if she can "win" (see above)
Winnie the Pooh
Complaining that the dog is bothering her (they usually are)
Snuggling
Cranberry-Raspberry juice
Using her hands to eat veggies (I swear, I try to get her to eat with a utensil like a normal human not raised in a barn)
The iPad, especially for Angry Birds and "The Monster at the End of the Book"
Really any pop music
Blowing bubbles
The color pink

I think that's the basics, but it's by no means a comprehensive list. She definitely knows what she likes and what she doesn't!

That's enough of a year-in-review for now. Next up: Lauren and her baby brother!